by: Kris Bickell

Getting into debt these days has become very easy. Credit card companies bombard us with offers in our mailbox, ads on TV, promotions in stores. If you can sign your name, it seems like you can get credit.

But what happens when you use so much credit that you can no longer pay your credit card bills every month?

And what happens when no matter how much you pay, your bills get biggerand biggerand bigger?

There are several strategies for getting out of debt.

All of them have their good points. And all of them have their bad points. Which one is right for you? Here is an overview of the different debt reduction options available to you:

Borrowing money from friends or relatives:

If you have a friend or relative who has enough money to help you get out of debt, consider yourself lucky. But think long and hard and then think again before choosing this option. While borrowing from a friend or relative can help you avoid the high cost of interest (if they are willing to give you the money without asking you to pay interest), borrowing money can hurt, or even ruin, your relationship. Everybody wants to pay back their rich uncle but what happens if you dont? Or you cant? This can put both of you in an uncomfortable position. Even if the money is a gift, it can change your relationship entirely. So make sure to give this option a lot of thought before borrowing money from a friend or relative.

Credit counseling:

For many people, credit counseling is a good option. After all, inmost cases you can lower your interest rate, lower your monthly payment, and combine your credit card bills into a single payment. But be careful. There are LOTS of non profit credit counseling companies out there. And not all are created equal (and not all do what they say they will do). Before signing any paperwork, it is a good idea to ask lots of questions. And compares the fees and other program details. Just because a business is non-profit doesnt mean there arent costs to you and doesnt mean you dont need to shop around and compare programs!

Debt consolidation loan:

If you are fortunate enough to own a home (and you have enough equity to borrow money from your homes value), a debt consolidation loan may be the way to go. In many cases, your interest may be tax deductible (but check with a tax professional first to make sure). And also think carefully about this option because if you borrow against your home, and you cannot make the payments for whatever reason, you may risk losing your home! Fees, interest rates, and terms vary, so make sure to shop around for the best loan program for you!

Debt settlement:

If bankruptcy seems like the only option, then debt settlement (also called debt negotiation) may be a good alternative. The process of settling your credit card bills (paying them off for less than you owe) is a more aggressive approach to getting out of debt. But if you are behind in your payments, this can be a less drastic step than declaring bankruptcy. You will pay income taxes on the amount you save, but this amount is usually still much less than the amount you would have paid in interest. Before deciding on debt settlement, make sure you feel comfortable with such an aggressive strategy and once again, shop around and compare terms and fees.

Bankruptcy:

Typically, bankruptcy is the last alternative. And with the new bankruptcy laws put into place in October 2005, you should consult with a bankruptcy attorney before considering this option. With good reason (for the most part), having your debts written off through bankruptcy has become more d

Now, which of these debt reduction strategies is right for you?

There is no simple answer. The best advice is to check out all your options very carefully before deciding which strategy is best for you. Before signing up with any company:

Ask lots of questions so you are comfortable with the company

Learn how the process works, find out the fees, and get ALL agreements in writing

Check with the Better Business Bureau to see if there are any unresolved complaints

And while being in debt is certainly very stressful, always remember that life is not entirely about money. Life is about making the most of each day, and being thankful for the things that you do have while you are working on fixing the things you dont!